Wedding Ideas

Unity Candle Ceremony

The Unity Candle Ceremony consists of the lighting of one candle from two separate

candles held

by the bride and groom. This ceremony symbolizes the union of two

lives into one. Creative

variations can be added to the ceremony, such as the

mothers of the bride and groom, or any

designated member of the wedding party,

lighting the candles after they walk down the isle or during

the ceremony. The

couple may keep the candle (some re-light the candle each year on their

anniversary).

The Blessing of the Rings

The wedding ring is the visible sign of an inward bond which unites two loyal hearts

in endless love.

It is a seal of the vows made to one another. It symbolizes living

together in unity, love and

happiness for the rest of their lives.

Breaking of the Glass

The breaking of the glass at the end of a wedding ceremony usually is reserved for

Jewish

ceremonies. However, it is a beautiful ending to any wedding. “Breaking the

glass serves to remind

us of two very important aspects of a marriage. The bride

and groom - and everyone - should

consider these marriage vows as an

IRREVOCABLE ACT - just as permanent and final as the

breaking of this glass is

unchangeable. But the breaking of the glass also is a warning of the

FRAILTY of a

marriage. That sometimes a single thoughtless act, breech of trust, or infidelity can

damage a marriage in ways that are very difficult to undo - just as it would be so

difficult to undo

the breaking of this glass. Knowing that this marriage is permanent,

the bride and groom should

strive to show each other the love and respect befitting

their spouse and love of their life."

Children Services

Many couples are remarrying and want to include their children in the ceremony.

There are

numerous ways this may be done. Ask us about the Family Medallion

Ceremony.

Flower Ceremony

This is a family/friends ceremony. Each designated person comes up and places a

different flower in

a vase to create a garden of love.

Hands Ceremony

A recent favorite of many couples. A three to five minute ceremony in which the

officiant uses the

phrasing, "These are the hands that...." in order to create a

preliminary set of vows (although this is

often used in place of traditional vows).

Honoring the Mothers

A brief reading is done and then the bride and/or groom present their mother(s) with

a small gift

(flowers usually).

Silent Blessing and Moment of Remembrance

Both are small blessings/readings honoring the deceased. They may include specific

names or a

general statement.

Ribbon Ceremony/Handfasting

The ancient Celts tied the hands of the bride and groom. The officiant loosely binds

the hands

together. They remain that way for the rest of the ceremony

Rose Ceremony

A symbolic ceremony using roses, the symbol of love. The couples who have

chosen this have

described it as an extremely beautiful and moving ceremony.

Support from Families Service

Parents become part of the introduction to the vows. The officiant asks who brings

this couple to be

wed.

Wine or Water Ceremony

The couple share a cup of wine or water while the officiant says a blessing and a

reading.

Blessing to the Four Directions

A long time ago, people believed the human soul shared characteristics with all

things celestial. This

prayer service designates the four points on a compass with

human virtues.

Jumping The Broom

There are many different versions of this ritual which involves the couple jumping

over the broom.

Essentially, the jumping of the broom is a symbol of sweeping away

of the old and welcoming the

new, or a symbol of a new beginning.

Anything You Want!

Do you have your own wedding ideas? We will incorporate anything you want into

the ceremony

so that it is the most magical event of your life.