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| Parents of the Bride Traditions The Mother of the Bride typically sets her attire and communicates the color to the Mother of the Groom so that she can then select her attire. Parents of the Bride typically take the lead on the wedding ceremony and reception. Parents of the Bride may host a farewell event, such as a brunch, the day after the wedding (this is also often hosted jointly with the Parents of the Groom) Parents of the Bride may provide hospitality suites as central gathering places. Parents of the Groom Traditions The Mother of the Groom typically allows the Mother of the Bride to first select her attire, then chooses her own attire accordingly. Parents of the Groom typically take the lead on the Rehearsal Dinner. Although the Parents of the Bride often throw a farewell event such as a brunch, the Parents of the Groom may also contribute, or host the event themselves. As a gesture, it is customary of Parents of the Groom to contribute to the payment of the Bridal Bouquet. Rehearsal Dinner The groom's Parents traditionally host the rehearsal dinner, but depending on your situation, you may to host or be involved in the planning of it. To save money, There is no reason why you couldn't host a lunch or rehearsal party in one of your parents' homes, and save on restaurant cost. in fact, a home is quite often intimate and pleasant for a small to medium size group. Rings The rings that you select will symbolize the eternal love that you have for each other. Their circular shape will serve as a reminder to each of you that, together, you are complete. Be sure to take time to select rings that are a reflection of your sense of style and strength of commitment. The wedding ring has traditionally been worn on the third finger of the left hand because it was believed that a vein in this finger ran directly to the heart. The third finger of the left hand has become the customary wedding-ring finger for all English-speaking cultures. Ring Bearer He carries the ring pillow down the aisle. He can walk with the flower girl or after her. Throwing Rice One of the oldest wedding traditions, the custom of throwing rice, originated with the ancient Hindus and Chinese. In these cultures, rice is the symbol of fruitfulness and prosperity. Tossing it after the ceremony was believed to bestow fertility upon the bride and groom. Eating rice and other grains was thought to guarantee health, wealth and happiness for the newlyweds. Today, rice tossing is being replaced by the more ecologically friendly birdseed tossing, because uncooked rice is damaging to birds who eat it off the church lawn. Tips on Tipping Most gratuities will be included in the fees, but it is customary to tip some of the following professionals who helped to make your day special. The following is a list for proper tipping protocol: Clergy Member -- 15% Limousine, D.J., Photographer -- 15% Waiters, Waitresses -- 15% Ushers These gentlemen lead all the guests to their seats and unroll the aisle runner before the processional. You should have one usher for every 50 guests. |
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